"A bell's not a bell till you ring it.
A song's not a song till you sing it.
And love in your heart wasn't put there to stay. Love isn't love till you give it away." (Richard Rodgers)
We love you and miss you, Jan. So much beauty has gone out of the world.
Darling, We miss thee so. The shepherd will come for his lamb, and the valley will bloom again.
Peace, Love, Happiness.
Source: Info verified with Riverside Cemetery grave record, thru Findagrave.